Chapter 3
Romance or amorous love was a concept that arose during the Enlightenment period of European History. Troubadors, princes, princesses, and the abstract ideal of two souls uniting as one via spiritual and emotional fulfillment within another. That is not present in all cultures or histories. Love as a marriage is a luxury.
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Love attracts jealousy, meddlers, and gossip. Everyone and their mothers want to be in other people's mix. That is weird and family drama. I don't like that. Some do.
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Romance, marriage, and divorce are parts of growth and release cycles to refine the soul and drive the course of people's lives according to fate and destiny.
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What is the point of romance?
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Every Rose Has Its Thorn & Its Time...
On the physical plane in a human body, who's to say who's to love who? Individuals have free will choice in life. The oppression, resistance, and conditioning are control centers of the soul. Some people break the mold, and some people follow tradition - whatever that means to them...
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For most, life is meant to be shared or that's what we're taught. That doesn't always pan out in real-life for everyone. If you want love, then set the intention of welcoming and accepting what feels right to you. Everyone has different personalities and are different, so its all relative until you choose what you want. You can't want what other people have if you want what you have. If you want to be wanted, you have to want you already have...
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That's the paradox and the mystery of attraction and magnetism. When you accept yourself and meet others at that frequency, you allow love in. To be in alignment with your higher self is to be in union with a higher frequency of love that attracts others more readily to you. Discernment will show you the moths...
To Each Their Own Eternity
Some people have one love their whole lives. Some have many. Some may last. Some may not. Some may be solitary. Some may choose other pathways...
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Traditionally and historically, society and towns and villages were built upon the constructs of marriage within the place of worship to construct society in order to allow the functioning of religion and banking. Spiritual lifestyles were religious, because marriage is an institution of morality and societal values to ensure the proliferation and sustenance of life. Think about it... It wasn't purely glamorous.
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In order for society to be something so that people can have commerce, homes, and food, the people must couple up and mate and stay together. That's how the basis of society was formed - from hunters and gatherers to agrarian lifestyles to metropolis populations. The evolution and advancement of society is based on love, children, and health. Health is wealth is the classic adage of lost times.
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In today's day and age, the digital revolution has overtaken the human consciousness and every corner and pocket of life. We are bombarded from childhood with Disney fairytales, magazines, and societal programming to be certain ways. To have certain things means certain things according to certain groups of people. Everyone does their own PR these days. Layers of personas and the barriers between private and public have been breached and blurred.
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The jealous, the unsatisfied, and the mentally ill are at an all-time high for self-aggrandizement, smear campaigns, and targeted agendas to ruin lives, families, and relationships. I've had that happen to me. They accuse me of the same, but that's just projection so that they can lie to try to cover their own trail and butt.
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